The way to a man's heart is through his stomach.
The way to a teenager's chore bone is through letting him have a friend over.
Sure. It lost a little something in translation. Doesn't really have a nice ring to it. But it speaks the truth. I can harp like the harpiest harpy who ever harped, until I'm as blue in the face as a Na'vi from the planet Pandora, and the #1 son won't lift a finger to clean up. Let the record show that he is paid extra allowance for chores over the basics like taking out the trash and helping Farmer H in the fields. And that he always needs money to feed his gadget habit. Still, no worky-worky.
Wednesday evening, he sprang the news on me that he might have friends coming out Friday evening. Not "might" as in, if I would allow it. He meant "might" as in, if they didn't have anything else to do. I did not like the idea. Told #1 that he would have to clean up the common areas, like the pool table/big screen room. And the basement NASCAR bathroom. The resistible force shook hands with the immovable object. The fallow fellow took the bait.
Not only did he don a pair of yellow Playtex gloves to scrub the toilet...he took the spigot assembly off the sink faucet and soaked the screen and screwy thing in vinegar. That's after he used CLR on it to no avail.
I can't believe it took me this long to find something to hold over his head. You know, what with me being nearly a member of MENSA and all.
Girlfriends have the same--if not more powerful--impact.
ReplyDeleteI am developing a product that will create a (false) email/text that can be sent to a teenager, "alerting" them that a sleepover/visit is impending. It can be customized with the "friend's" name, and the reason for the visit. Once the email or text is sent, a flurry of activity begins. It's amazing.
I AM in need of investors, however...
Sioux,
ReplyDeleteIt's been a couple years since #1 had an official girlfriend. It was probably not a good idea to ask another girl if she would go out with him if he broke up with his then-girlfriend. Word gets around.
I can give you promotional counter space in the front office of my proposed handbasket factory. But the investment option is a no-go. I have a kid who wants to attend a high-dollar college, just to say he did. Between that, and my 44 oz. Diet Coke habit, I am cash poor. I don't even have a bag of pennies to buy a calzone.